Bad Advice Only

Is the "Wait Rule" actually protecting you, or is it just wasting your time? This week on Bad Advice Only, Nora, Tara, and Allison (the rat girls) dive deep into the age-old debate: Should you sleep with someone on the first date?
The Rat Girls are breaking down why sexual compatibility is a first-date priority and share their ultimate "Bare Minimum Checklist" (including why a man over 30 without hand soap is an immediate red flag).
In this episode, we discuss:
First Date Standards: Why headboards and sheets are non-negotiable.
The NYC vs. South Debate: Does your location change how "slutty" you are?
Biological Logic: Why waiting 3 dates won’t change a man’s mind.
The "ick" factor: How a guy saying "you haven't touched me yet" is the ultimate turn-off.
Period Sex & Taboos: Why "bitch boys" are still afraid of a little blood.
Whether you're looking for a relationship or just looking to "get it out of the way," this episode is your guide to navigating modern dating in NYC with zero shame and 100% honesty.
Watch the full episode for the verdict.
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📌 TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 – The Age-Old Question: Sex on the First Date?
01:30 – A History of "Boning" (The 1900s were wild).
02:45 – The First Date Checklist: Hand Soap & Headboards.
04:00 – Nora’s First Date Ick: "You haven't touched me yet."
05:30 – If she hasn't walked out, you're still in the game.
07:15 – NYC vs. The South: The Geography of Dating.
09:50 – Sexual Compatibility: Why we don’t "train" men anymore.
12:30 – The "Blue Balls" Debate & First Date Rejection.
20:00 – Falling in Love vs. Being a Prude.
23:00 – Period Blood & The Shame Spiral. 26:30 – Allison’s "Milk Prank" Confession.
 
 
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This week on Bad Advice Only, Allison, Nora, and Tara are diving into the psychological warfare of running into an ex. We’ve all been there: the frantic "Am I a smoke show?" mirror check vs. the reAllisonty of being caught in the wild with "dog face" and three-day-old dry shampoo.
Allison reveals her diabolical "standoff" move (moving into the building directly across the street from an ex), Nora recounts the satisfaction of seeing an ex in a "wrinkled T-shirt," and Tara explains why Brooklyn is actually way too small for comfort.
The Rat Sisters advise a member of the ratpack heading to a Catskills wedding where her toxic ex, "Finance Josh," is the best man. Should she go "modest midi" or "revenge slip dress held together by thoughts and prayers"? We’re choosing violence. Make sure to tune in!

Welcome back, Rats! In today’s riveting episode, the Rat Pack (Allison, Nora, and Tara) is back on video to discuss why being a "hot girl" in NYC is actually just a high-speed chase on a treadmill made of money.
Tara introduces us to the "Hot Girl Hamster Wheel"—a concept coined by podcaster & genius Katie Gatti Tassin—and the terrifying realization that our beauty maintenance might be costing us a cool million dollars over a lifetime. We’re breaking down the math of our own dysmorphia, from $700 hair color sessions to the literal shaving of invisible face hairs.
 

The Bad Advice Only girlies are back to ruin romance. From New York City dating red flags to the literal "shitty" side of love, Allison, Nora, and Tara are exposing the cringiest "I love you" stories in the history of the Rat Pack.
This week, we’re diving into the "L-word," but obviously, we’re making it disgusting. Between 32-year-old men who can’t say "love" without using the word "heart" and the harrowing reAllisonty of the seven-day "poop skis," romance is officially on life support.
Topics covered:
NYC Dating & Age Gaps: Why a 32-year-old man saying “I heart you” is a major ick.
The Diarrhea Diaries: Navigating the stomach flu, pregnancy scares, and "Everyone Poops" Christmas gifts.
Millennial Nostalgia: AOL Instant Messenger (AIM) relationships and high school "love manuals."
Health & Lifestyle: Why your Venti iced coffee is causing "liquid poops" and how to fix it.

Welcome back to another unhinged episode of Bad Advice Only. Today, your favorite New York City rats—Tara, Nora, and Allison—are exposing the absolute "do-nots" of the early stages of dating. From "fetal" mistakes to full-blown dating nightmares, we’re proving that sometimes the biggest red flags lead to the longest relationships (for better or worse).
In this episode, Allison finally tells the infamous Financial District story involving a white couch, a bottle of wine, and a "code brown" situation that will make you rethink anal prep. Meanwhile, Nora reports live from Colombia to discuss "Cuddle Night Stands", and Tara explains why your NYC roommate should never warm up your bed for a first date.
Are you a fellow Rat? If you want the even "dirtier" details we can’t say on YouTube, join our Patreon for exclusive content, incest conspiracy theories, and the full "Frosty the Pillow" saga.
 
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You've heard about post nut clarity but what about the post nut audacity? We're talking about the mean shit men say before, during, and after sex. If he’s acting like a dick before the Uber has even arrived, this episode is for you. Stop dating men who hate you.___________________________________________________Submit your questions and topics you’d like to hear on the podcast to: BadAdviceOnlyNYC@gmail.com Subscribe to our Patreon for BONUS episodes: https://www.patreon.com/c/BadAdviceOnlyNYCFind us on Instagram: BadAdviceOnlyNYCSubscribe to our YouTube channel: Bad Advice Only___________________________________________________#PostNutAudacity, #PostNutClarity, #PostNutSwitch, #DatingHorrorStories, #BadAdvice, #RedFlags, #MeanMen, #DatingHumor, #NYCDating, #NYCLife, #WestVillage, #LowerEastSide, #NYCMan, #BrooklynDating, #ManhattanNightlife, #DatingInTheCity, #GirlTalk, #GroupChat, #ToxicDating, #KnowYourWorth, #Situationships, #BreakupAdvice, #DatingRant, #Storytime, #PodcastClips, #PodcastHighlights, #Trending, #RelationshipAdvice, #FunnyPodcast, #Unhinged

Welcome back, Rats! It’s 2026 and the Bad Advice Only girls are kicking off the year exactly how you’d expect: dehydrated, hormonal, and taking medical advice from Colombian pharmacies.
In this episode, Tara, Nora, and Allison sit down to read their New Year’s resolutions. From Nora’s mysterious "Plan B Glow" to Allison’s laundry list of unaccomplished 2025 goals, we’re laying it all out—including the hair on our toes.
Grab your coffee, ignore your roommates, and join the Rat Pack as we manifest a toxic and highly-unproductive 2026.
 
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This week your favorite Rat Girls are talking about one of our most disgusting topics yet... kids. If you've got that rich auntie energy, this ones for you.___________________________________________________Submit your questions and topics you’d like to hear on the podcast to: BadAdviceOnlyNYC@gmail.com Subscribe to our Patreon for BONUS episodes: https://www.patreon.com/c/BadAdviceOnlyNYCFind us on Instagram: BadAdviceOnlyNYCSubscribe to our YouTube channel: Bad Advice Only___________________________________________________#childfreebychoice, #childfreelife, #dink, #dinklife, #childfreecommunity, #nokidsnoproblem, #auntieera, #richauntieenergy, #childfreewoman, #childfreeliving, #kidfree, #teamnokids, #nycdating, #datinginnyc, #datinghorrorstories, #hingenyc, #nyclifestyle, #manhattangirlies, #brooklyndating, #datingadviceforwomen, #singleinnyc, #datingredflags, #sexandthecityvibes, #unhinged, #badadvice, #raunchyhumor, #girlstalk, #brutallyhonest, #nofilter, #girlhood, #relatablecontent, #chaosenergy, #delusional, #newpodcastalert, #podcastrecommendations, #womenwhopodcast, #indiepodcasts, #podcastsforwomen, #spotifypodcast, #podcastclips

"Climbing the Corporate Ladder" just took on a whole new meaning. This week on Bad Advice Only, things go from "professional" to "feral" real quick. Tara drops the bombshell story of sleeping with the man who signs her paychecksIs it a promotion or Is it a lawsuit? ___________________________________________________Submit your questions and topics you’d like to hear on the podcast to: BadAdviceOnlyNYC@gmail.com Subscribe to our Patreon for BONUS episodes: https://www.patreon.com/c/BadAdviceOnlyNYCFind us on Instagram: BadAdviceOnlyNYCSubscribe to our YouTube channel: Bad Advice Only___________________________________________________#HRsWorstNightmare, #SleepingWithTheBoss, #WorkplaceRomance, #OfficeDrama, #CorporateHumor, #BadAdvicePodcast, #DatingInNYC, #NYCDating, #ManhattanLife, #CityGirls, #Midtown, #NYCStories, #CorporateGirlie, #Unhinged, #SpillingTheTea, #ToxicDating, #RedFlags, #Storytime, #Situationships, #GirlTalk, #ChaoticEnergy, #DatingPodcast, #ComedyPodcast, #PodcastRecommendations, #NewEpisode, #RelationshipGoals, #WaitForIt, #Exposed, #Confessions, #CareerAdvice

In a world of perfectly curated couples and engagement announcement flexes, is it actually cringe to post your boyfriend? Tara and Nora dive deep into the anxiety-inducing, utterly embarrassing reality of soft-launching, hard-launching, and the terrifying decision to make your man Instagram official. Is keeping him a secret the ultimate flex, or are you just ashamed of his face card? ___________________________________________________Submit your questions and topics you’d like to hear on the podcast to: BadAdviceOnlyNYC@gmail.com Subscribe to our Patreon for BONUS episodes: https://www.patreon.com/c/BadAdviceOnlyNYCFind us on Instagram: BadAdviceOnlyNYCSubscribe to our YouTube channel: Bad Advice Only___________________________________________________#DatingAdvice, #Relationships, #OnlineDating, #DatingLife, #RelationshipGoals, #Podcast, #Podcasts, #WomenPodcasters, #Relatable, #SingleLife, #NYCDateNight, #NYCdating, #DatingInNYC, #DatingMemes, #SoftLaunch, #HardLaunch, #BoyfriendProblems, #ModernDating, #DatingApp, #RelationshipAdvice, #BadAdvice, #BadAdvicePodcast, #BoyfriendShame, #CringeCouples, #UnhingedPodcast, #ChaoticGirls, #PostThePic, #IsHeEmbarrassing, #SexAndTheCityVibes, #ListenNow